Wednesday, August 26, 2009

things about guy

these things are absolutely right and i admit it....so please girls...read it carefully...

--"Hey, are you busy?" or "Are you doing something?" ~ two phrases guys open with to stop from stammering on the phone.

--Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.

--Before they call, guys try to plan out a little about what they're gonna say so there aren't awkward pauses, but once he's on the phone he forgets it all and makes it up as he goes.

--Guys go crazy over a girl's smile.


--Guys will do anything just to get you to notice him.

--Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend or ex love-interest. Unless they're goin for the let-her-complain-to-you-an
d-then-have-her-realize-how-wonderful-and-nice-you-are method.

--A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to.

--Boyfriends need to be reassured often that they're still loved.

--Don't talk about your guy friends to your boyfriend.

--Guys get jealous easily.

--Guys are more emotional than they'd like people to think.

--Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know what?!..uh...nevermind.." would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. And he'll assume he did something wrong and he'll obsess about it trying to figure it out.

--Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.

--Guys hate asking parents for money to buy girls presents. So they come up with ideas like saving their lunch money for a week. But it never works because guys are always hungry so they end up asking the parents for money anyway.

--Girls are guys' weaknesses.

--Guys are very open about themselves.

--It's good to test a guy first before you trust him. But don't let him wait too long

--Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.

--If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice.

--A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.

--Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.

--Guys will brag about anything.

--Guys use words like hot or cute to describe girls. We rarely use beautiful. If a guy uses that, he likes you a whole hell of a lot.

--No matter how much guys talk about asses and boobs, personality is key.

--Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.

--Guys worry about the thin line between being compassionate and being whipped.

--Guys think WAY too much. One small thing a girl does, even if she doesn't notice it can make the guy think about it for hours, trying to figure out what it meant.

--Guys seek for advice from girls not other guys. Because most guys think alike, so if one guy's confused, then we're all confused.

--Any guy could write out a rulebook or advice book for flirting, but no guy can write out a book about relationships.

--Try to be as straightforward as possible.

--If the guy does something stupid in front of the girl, he will think about it for the next couple days or until the next time he spends time with the girl.

--If a guy looks unusually calm and laid back, he's probably faking it and is spazzing inside.

--When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is. Guys rarely say that.

--When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, "Please come and listen to me."

--Guys don't really have final decisions.

--If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. It doesn't happen that often, so when it does, you know something's up.

--If your best guy friend seems to avoid you or is never around when you're with your boyfriend, he's probably jealous and likes you.

--When a guy tells you that you are beautiful, don't say you aren't. It makes them want to stop telling you because they don't want you to disagree with them

--When a guy looks at you for longer than a second, he's definitely thinking something.

--Guys like femininity not feebleness.

--Guys don't like girls who punch harder than they do.

--A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.

--Don't be a snob. Guys can be intimidated and give up easily.

--Everything in moderation. Put on makeup, wear perfume. Just not too much.

--Guys talk about girls more than girls talk about guys.

--Guys hate rejection, but they hate being led on even more.

--If you are going to reject a guy, just do it. Don't say they are like a brother or just good friends, it just hurts even more. Tell them that you aren't interested in a relationship and they will respect you.

--Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions and are MAD confusing but somehow are drawn even more to them.

--A guy would give his left nut to be able to read a girl's mind for a day.

--No guy can handle all his problems on his own. He's just too stubborn to admit it.

--Not all guys are assholes. Just because ONE is a jackass doesnt mean he represents ALL of us.

--We don't like girls who are too skinny.

--Always make sure you know what kind of stuff your getting into before making out with a guy ...like wheather it's a one time deal or not ....

--Believe it or not shy guys are the most easiest to talk to..it may not seem right but trust me they will start opening up like books after you just ask them questions about their lives and unoticable tell them about yours...

--Even if they refuse it all guys are ticklish on the ribs..

--Guys love neck rubs and if he lets you keep doing it ..it means that he really likes you or his neck really hurts...

--Guys will test the waters to see how far they can get with you. Even if he doesn't intend to it will happen. Know how far it is you want to let him go and he will respect that...after you let him know a couple times.

--When a guy sacrifices his sleep and health just to be with you, he really likes you and wants to be with you as much as possible.


so which one have you known, ladies?


Ps: sit back, relax, and smileee like you mean it !

Tuesday, August 25, 2009

Sepenggal Kisah Pengalaman Harian

ini terjadi klo ga salah hari sabtu yg lalu.tgl 22 agustus 2009.

hari itu sekitar jam 2 siang.g dlm perjalan pulang menuju rumah dari kampus mengurus peminjaman kelas bwt ordik.di tengah jalan tembus deplu g berpapasan dengan seorang bapak2 tua yg nuntun sepeda menuju arah yg sama dgn g.biasany g ga peduli dengan hal itu.tp klai ini beda.g ngeliat dy memungut gelas aqua yg dibuang dan msh ad sedikit airny trs diminum.iy diminum....g dlm hati membatin..'waduh...mesak'e nemen to pak'...dan g trs melanjutkan perjalan pulang k rmh..

tp pas sampe tembusan k bukit bahagia g berhenti...g kepikiran trs sm tuh bpk.g merasa kasihan tp kok ga ngelakuin ssuatu ya?pikir g.akhirny g mutusin bwt muter balik.dan pas tanjakan berbelok d deplu g berpapasan lgi sm tuh bapak...g berhenti d warung rokok bwt beli aqua sebotol sm roti.akhirny g susul tuh bapak.g berhenti agk jauh d dpnny trs pas dy lewat g panggil.dan aqua sm tuh roti g kasih 'pak,ini bwt bpk.td saya ngeliat bpk mungut aqua trs diminum.saya jd ga tega.yaudah akhirny ini saya beliin bwt bpk.dimakan y pak'

tuh bpk cm bilang 'makasih y dek' dan akhirny g ngeloyor pergi.dengan pikiran yg lega dah berbuat sesuatu bwt tuh bpk.

g pgn ngasih tau nih...sbnrny g bkn org yg termsuk peduli sm kaum fakir.malah bisa dibilang cuek.tp hari itu g ngerasa ad yg lain.tuh bpk ga menunjukkan diriny sbg kaum fakir.dy ga menonjolkan bahwa dy itu ga mampu.dy trs berjalan tanpa memperlihatkan ketidakmampuanny.berbeda sm org fakir yg selama ini g temuin.mereka dengan sengaja memperlihatkan kemelaratan mereka.dengan harapan akan diberi.entah mereka itu mengems dgn cara apapun.minta k mobil2 ato d pinggir jalan,ank kecil yg membagikan amplop,ngamen dengan modal denkul dan baju lusuh.itu semua cara yg menurut g ga bermakna d dpn g.

tp sikap tu bpk yg menggerakkan hati g.dan g ngeliat bpk mungut tuh gelas secara ga sengaja.jd g mikir gini 'kasian bgt tuh org.dah cm naek sepeda.kykny rumahny jg jauh.tp bwt beli air minum aj ga bisa.'

yah itulah sebuah pengalaman yg berharga bwt g...dari pengalaman itu g mendapat sebuah makna hidup

jangan menunjukan ketidakmampuanmu,krn hal itu tdk akan membuatmu tdk mampu untuk maju

tp jgn terlalu memaksakan juga.

maksud g tuh gini.klo lw mendapat sebuah hambatan jangan langsung memperlihatkan dengan sengaja ko lw ga mampu.coba hadapi hambatan itu dulu.klo lw berhasil melewatiny itu akan membuat lw jadi pribadi yg lbh tangguh.tp klo dah mencoba trs tp ttp merasa blm bisa.cobalah minta bantuan tp jgn dgn keluhan..

okeh saudara sekalian.

Wednesday, August 19, 2009

akhirny ngeblog lagi

wah wah wah....sudah lama yah saya tidak ngeblog...dlu cuma bwt tugas...skrg kykny g lg pgn ngeblog bneran...gr2 bnyk uneg2 yg ingin dituliskan...hehehehe...

nama blog kali ini 'Daily Weekly Monthly'
ini krn g sendiri mungkin ga bisa update blog ini rs scr harian...munkin bisa mingguan ato jg bulanan...y smoga aj ga kudate trs2 an.....ahahahaiiii....yo wisss mari kita ngeblog ceria...mari gan...!!!